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    There are many of you who are single orsingle again and abstinence is not even a consideration.  Our sexual decisions should not be based on an age but on what we know.  I hope that by learning the truth about potential dangers, you will not be closed minded but will be open to making abstinence an option even for you. 


    Did You Know:

    • 86% of college students have had sexual intercourse during their lifetime. 51
    • Unplanned pregnancies are most common in the age group of 20-29. 52
    • Of the 18.9 million new cases of STIs each year, 9.1 million (48%) occur among 15–24-year-olds.
    • Although 15–24-year-olds represent only one-quarter of the sexually active population, they account for nearly half of all new STIs each year. 53

     

    The Reality of Abortion

    • The age group of mostunplannedpregnanciesresulting in abortion is ages 20-24.
    • Half of all pregnancies in the United States are unintended.
    • Half of unintended pregnancies end in abortion.
    • 1 in 3 women by the age of 40 have had at least one abortion. 54
    • For more information on all your pregnancy options, contact Real Options for Women

     

    Singles' Survival Guide:

    • Require a commitment .
    • Evaluate your reasons for sexual activity.
      • Unhealthy past relationships
      • Defense mechanism
      • Unhealthy self-image
      • Co-dependence on others
      • Sexual abuse
    • Set appropriate physical boundaries.
    • Don’t fall into the “Not Me” Trap.
    • Anticipate sexual activity instead of it simply being expected.
    • Identify potential abusive relationships here.